Channel: Brenda Hoffman | Source
Dear Ones,
Perhaps you believe those you love will be alone once you claim your new being. Or that you will be caretaking them forever. Maybe you have not yet noticed that those who were once your charges, who created dread and never-ending tasks related to their caretaking, are shifting in ways not necessarily expected. Perhaps the troublesome child is becoming more responsible, or the ailing partner or friend seems to be improving. Or the needy neighbor moves away. It is not an accident that it is so.
You do not have the time or energy to devote your being to someone else’s needs. Of course, such a statement ignores your eons of selfless caretaking. In truth, reading these words makes you uncomfortable and provides reasons to feel you must continue your dedicated caretaking. You have visions of death, illness, and cruelty if you do not.
We of the Universes must explain our words in more comfortable terms. An infant needs care. If you are unable or unwilling to perform the required tasks, it is your responsibility to find someone who will. But as the child ages, so too must they be given self-care responsibilities that allow them to function without ongoing caretaking. And if your task is to care for an elderly or ill person, ask yourself what services you can provide without depleting yourself. You will likely then worry about finances for payments to those who wish to provide those services, once again falling into the thought process that you are fully depleted emotionally and physically, and that no one is available because of finances or other concerns. What do you wish to create?
We will return to the basic piece of your new being that you either ignore or negate. What is it you need to feel comfortable and fulfilled? And what are you doing to create that environment for yourself? Is it finances? Or allowing your child, parent, or friend the freedom to discover their self-care skillset? Or is it allowing others in your circle or the circles of your child, parent, or friend to provide services that you are too depleted to provide? The phrase “I can do this even if I can barely keep my eyes open or afford to do so” is a 3D approach to servitude. “I’m the only person capable of providing this assistance” is yet another 3D ego concept that has nothing to do with your new life.
Your new being is designed to solve problems without depleting you. You are filled with new skills and interests. Perhaps those new interests include providing services for the elderly, neighbors, or the young. If the thought of doing so lights up your life, that is the correct direction for you. But if you have to drag yourself out of bed thinking that you must do this for that person, it is time for you to create solutions that do not require you to redirect your energies from your new being into 3D have tos or caretaking. Such creations and thoughts are not selfish or self-serving; they are merely indicators of the direction appropriate for new you.
You have followed 3D directives for eons on Earth. Directives that strongly encouraged you to caretake others despite negating your needs. Now that everyone, including children, has a directive for self-care in this new world, you will discover that even the youngest child will find caretaking a bit uncomfortable. Just as is true for you, toddlers, the aged, the infirm, and the needy will feel increasingly uncomfortable as your caretaking erodes their ability to find their place in this new world. What was once a call of “Help me” will or has become a sense of irritation that you are telling them what to do and when. This is an age of self-sufficiency, not one of 3D caretaking or “I can’t, someone has to do it for me,” that was so evident throughout the 3D Earth eons.
That is not to say that you or anyone is heartless, but instead to glory in the self-sufficiency that has become Earth’s new calling.
Even though you are likely horrified by our statements this week, we must remind you that caretaking and neediness were important elements of the 3D pyramid power structures you adhered to. In this new circular world structure, exploration, personal freedom, and self-care are dominant characteristics. So those who elect to care for others are doing so because they want to; it is their area of interest. And those who no longer wish to be caretakers will create a system that provides for those too young, ill, or elderly to care for themselves.
No longer will you be “the all” for anyone who requires it. Nor will you blame yourself for not finding caretaking interesting. You are flying into your new world, one that does not require you to be everything to everyone who wants you to be or do this or that.
Do you believe those of the Universal ethers require caretaking no matter their age? Or do you assume that those of the Universes are probably ageless and fully capable of taking care of themselves? And so it is.
Caretaking is no longer a lifelong assignment for almost every individual of Earth. Those who wish to continue in that role, or who now find it intriguing, will do so. The rest of you will fly into your new interests without concern for those who might require assistance because of their age, physical needs, or disinterest in self-care.
Not everyone is willing to transition in this lifetime. Those who do not transition will lack the creation skills you will soon take for granted. Those you are unwilling to caretake may decide to transition, thereby creating their answers to their needs. And those unwilling to transition despite definite needs will no longer be your responsibility.
You are a new being in a new world that does not include caretaking unless it is of interest to you to do so. So be it. Amen.
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