It is much easier to blame everyone around you than to take responsibility for your contributions in cocreating the reality you find yourself in.
Many desire freedom while simultaneously constructing identities, habits, beliefs, and systems they eventually become afraid to leave.
People seek independence, yet become attached to the very structures that limit them. You fear losing your identity, your status, your routines, and your sense of belonging; even when those things no longer serve you.
Sometimes the greatest barrier to freedom is not what holds you captive, but your fear of discovering who you would be without it. ~KejRaj